Almost two weeks ago now, I bought a Labradoodle (Labrador-Poodle mix) to train as a guide dog for the blind. Over and over again I was warned by his previous owner how much he hated car rides: “He has to sit in the front with me, otherwise the poor baby gets so scared. He always throws up if he has to be …
Playing the role
“We are cruel when someone refuses to play the role in which we have cast him. We judge a person only according to his relationship towards us.” – Anais Nin I read this quote from Anais Nin and immediately thought of how we see our dogs a certain way. There’s always this vision of how we would like them to …
Playing the role
“We are cruel when someone refuses to play the role in which we have cast him. We judge a person only according to his relationship towards us.” – Anais Nin I read this quote from Anais Nin and immediately thought of how we see our dogs a certain way. There’s always this vision of how we would like them to …
A short conversation about wags
The phrase, “He just wants to play!”, has become quite the joke amongst experienced dog owners and trainers. If someone feels the need to tell someone that their dog won’t hurt him or explain his or her behavior in that way, there is always a reason. If their dog was calm or simply polite toward others, they wouldn’t have to …
A short conversation about wags
The phrase, “He just wants to play!”, has become quite the joke amongst experienced dog owners and trainers. If someone feels the need to tell someone that their dog won’t hurt him or explain his or her behavior in that way, there is always a reason. If their dog was calm or simply polite toward others, they wouldn’t have to …
Answering Unnecessarily
Humans were raised to be polite… For the most part. When asked a question, we answer. We say things such as “Thank you!” or “Good morning!”. A constant, cheery flow of feedback towards others’ actions is a must in our society to be liked, loved, hired or simply accepted. Which is a great thing – there can sometimes never be enough …
Answering Unnecessarily
Humans were raised to be polite… For the most part. When asked a question, we answer. We say things such as “Thank you!” or “Good morning!”. A constant, cheery flow of feedback towards others’ actions is a must in our society to be liked, loved, hired or simply accepted. Which is a great thing – there can sometimes never be enough …
Why Should I?
We often hear people yelling at their animals – “SIT!!”, “DOWN!!” -, often with no success. My question to these people is always… why? Why should your animal do what it is you’re asking? The answer always seems to be, “Because I said so.” While I can understand where this statement is coming from, we must understand what lies behind …
Why Should I?
We often hear people yelling at their animals – “SIT!!”, “DOWN!!” -, often with no success. My question to these people is always… why? Why should your animal do what it is you’re asking? The answer always seems to be, “Because I said so.” While I can understand where this statement is coming from, we must understand what lies behind …
Visualization
How we are with animals is a life style – not a method. We should practice these concepts and mentalities in all other parts of our lives, too, not just when we’re with our horses and dogs. The goal is to embody who we want to be when we are with our animals. One way to escalate this process (which …